Friday, February 27, 2009

Separation Anxiety

How do you deal with your little ones having separation anxiety? I love that I get to spend every day with my 15 month old, but it makes it difficult when we are apart. He does fine without me at grandmas' houses and even with the occasional sitter in our home, however he does not do well in other situations. My husband and I have gym memberships through his work and our gym has a little child care center where children can go while you work out. I figured this would be a good experience for my son to play with other children and have time away from me, but unfortunately it hasn't turned out that way. The caregivers usually either come to get me after 10-15 minutes because he won't stop crying or they just keep him there with tears rolling down his cheeks. I've tried a few different attempts to the actual 'separation' aspect. I've tried handing him over quickly and leaving immediately, and I've also tried playing with him for a few minutes to get him adjusted to the new environment. Neither attempt has seemed to work, and of course he is too young to understand that I will be coming back. I feel terrible even bringing him, and yet I want him to acclimate to these types of situations since nursery is drawing nearer and nearer...

So, my question is, should I start bringing him consistently and hope that he will just adjust (and endure the heartbreak of knowing he is sobbing the entire time I'm away) or just wait until he gets older (and risk that it will just keep getting harder and also not allow myself to have some unattached time)? What has worked for you?

More questions...

Sorry for all my questions hogging the site! I am 48 hours into 'cold turkeying' the breastfeeding. Kalli is actually doing really well, but I am pretty uncomfortable. (sorry if this is TMI, but I just want to know) So when should I expect to feel relief and umm, go back to normal size? Sorry but as this is my first nursing experience, I am not sure what to expect!

Also- kind of the same page, I have decided that once I return to 'normal', I am planning on spending some money and actually going somewhere and getting fitted for a correct fitting bra. As someone who is not small chested, I would love a good supporting bra that actually fits. Have any of you ever done this before and had success and where did you go? Macy's, Victoria's Secret (slight cringe)? Again, sorry for TMI!

Thursday, February 26, 2009

Spotlight: Liz&Meg

Basics

1. What is your age and physical description? I'm a round 29 year old with dark hair and dark eyes.
2. Where were you born and where are you now? Minneapolis, MN and now I'm in Little Rock
3. What do you do for a living? I work at a private school for kids with Down Syndrome and Autism as a speech therapist two days a week
4. What is your favorite and least favorite color? favorites-there are too many but I gravitate toward blues, yellows and pinks, least favorite-I like orange but it looks terrible on me!
5. Did you go to college and get a degree, If so, where & what? I went to Utah State for my undergrad and the University of Minnesota for grad school
6. How many children do you have? How old are they? I have two girls-one just turned three and the other just had her six month birthday
7. What’s your favorite and least favorite food? another tough one-I'm easy to please! I looooove spaghetti and most pasta dishes, sadly, anything fried, I probably love it, least favorite-lima beans, definitely
8. Are you right or left handed? right handed but my little little girl is showing some left hand dominance that surprises me!
9. Do you play any instruments? I am a mediocre musician. I can plunk out easy stuff on the piano and I love to sing but am untrained in it
10. What are your hobbies? I love to sew, read, scrapbook, crochet, blog, snuggle with my girls and hubby. I make bags and recently I've fallen in love with making cute things for my girls to wear!

Make You Think...

11. What did you want to be when you grew up? I wanted to be a teacher during school, in college I wanted to be a doctor but didn't want to be in residency forever and wanted to not have crazy hours so I discovered speech therapy and think it's the best of both worlds! 
12. What is your biggest fear? losing my girls
13. Who has touched your life and influenced you the most and why? my Mom, I think she's wonderful and talented, I love the things that I like her in and wish that I were as smiley, organized, spiritual, resilient and amazing as she is... maybe someday!
14. If you could accomplish just one thing with your life, what would that be and why? to be a "glass half full" kind of girl instead of the opposite and share that with everyone around me (see number 13)
15. What is your worst habit and if you could quit it, would you? biting my cuticles and my cheek, yes on the first, but the second only so my dad will quit nagging me about it :)
16. Who would play you in the movie of your life? Who would play your husband? i have loved everyone's answers on this but can't come up with my own- I'm drawing a complete blank! 
sooooo... if you can think of someone (whether you know me personally or you're drawing from the picture at the top) I'll pick my favorite suggestion and send you a prize...not sure what yet, but I'll think of something cute! 
17. What songs would make up the soundtrack of your life and why? lots of princess songs because of my girls who live on disney princesses and my childhood, teenage years-a lot of Tori Amos and Cranberries and Dave Matthews, college-Dido, U2, motherhood-KT Tunstall, Coldplay, the Twilight soundtrack
18. If you could meet any one person in history, who would it be, and why? Brigham Young, Abraham Lincoln, George Washington, Mormon and Moroni, that's more than one, sorry, I would love to ask what their life was really like
19. If you lost everything you have tomorrow, what three things would you save and why? do  I automatically get my family? After that it would be my scriptures, my backup CDs with all my photos on them, and my file of papers
20. What is your favorite quote and why?
"That which we persist in doing becomes easier, not that the task itself has become easier, but that our ability to perform it has improved." -Ralph Waldo Emerson (I was raised thinking my grandpa said this but it wasn't him or a prophet, it originally came from Emerson!)

Just For Fun

21. Do you sleep with the closet door open or closed? open, the other day we closed it after we cleaned our room and it was so cold in there the next morning!
22. What is your biggest pet peeve? interrupting, and i do it myself and hate it in myself!
23. Where are the top three places you'd like to travel to? more of Europe, Washington DC, and Fiji
24. Do you ever dance for no reason even though there’s no music playing? yes, in the kitchen
25. What size is your bed? queen-we had a king in Utah (living at my grandma's condo) and I looooved it. There is a king size bed in our future, for sure!
26. What do you drink with dinner? usually water, but there are some meals that milk just tastes so yummy with... and some that require a cherry coke zero, like pizza and sushi
27. What movies could you watch over and over and still love? sweet home alabama, shall we dance?, pride and prejudice, the italian job
28. What was the first concert you went to? billy joel and elton john (I was fourteen and my dad gave me tickets he'd gotten from a drug rep and so when I showed up with my good friend/YW leader, they told us we were in the wrong seats!)
29. What is on your perfect pizza? It's Papa Murphy's Gourmet vegetarian with chicken added
30. What's the most exotic place you've traveled to? Tiajuana, Mexico... just kidding, but i have been there. It would probably be Hawaii or London. 

GIVEAWAY!

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Wednesday, February 25, 2009

Wednesday Weekly

1.Do you put water on your toothbrush before or after you put the toothpaste on?

2. When you take a shower do you wash your hair first or your body?

Tuesday, February 24, 2009

Weaning advice needed!!

Kalli just turned one almost a month ago and I have decided it is time to be done breastfeeding. My reasons for this decision are:
a. She eats solids like a champ
b. She does pretty well drinking whole milk
c. I think my milk is slowly drying up anyways
d. When her 12 teeth chomp down on me, blood is usually drawn!

My son would never breastfeed so this is my first experience with weaning and I want to know what works best for you gals.

Right now she nurses maybe once or twice during the day, but not for very long. I am assuming this is because I don't have much milk right now. The only time she nurses and I think she is really getting anything is her early morning feeding she still does.

So, what do I do? Cold turkey it or what? Do I start giving her a bottle of milk in the early morning (4-5 am) (I know she doesn't need to eat then, it is her comfort thing) or just stop the early morning feed altogether (which I know I can do)? I think the only time she might really be upset is in the morning because during the day she barely nurses at all.

Any and all advice is welcome, I just want this to be as quick and painless as possible. Thanks!!

Tuesday FHE Re-cap

What did you do for FHE last night? What worked? What didn't?

Monday, February 23, 2009

Spotlight Member for February 23-March 1

This week's Spotlight Member is

Liz&Meg!!!

Congratulations Liz! Click here to find the "official" survey. Copy and paste it into a new post, answer the questions, include a picture and publish it so we can all get to know you a little better.

Also- I will be out of town next Monday, so we will go a week without a spotlight member. Check back in two weeks for our next spotlight member.

"Special Numbers"

One of my favorite FHE memories from when I was a kid was "Special Numbers". It was this made-up section of FHE that happened I think after the opening song and prayer. It was basically a time to share a talent or something. Sometimes someone would play a piano piece or something, but most of the time my toddler siblings would start doing crazy somersaults, jumps, kicks, and twists around the room. They loved the positive reinforcement for their "tricks" and it made us all smile. One of us would say "Special Numbers....GO!" and then the performance would begin. Fun for the little ones!

Art or Crafts?

Does anyone have any ideas for Spring/St. Patrick's Day/Easter art/craft projects to do with my 2 1/2 year old? She had a blast making Valentines for everyone we could think of, but now she keeps wanting to make more Valentines. I need some new projects so we can put away the Valentines until next year. Thanks!

Friday, February 20, 2009

Spicing Up Primary

When I moved, I was put in the stake primary.  I'm still kind of laughing.  I've had a total of two callings in primary so I'm just not an expert here!  

We're having leadership meeting with our unit presidencies at the end of the month and they've been asking for fresh, new ideas to share and go home with.  

So!  What's fresh? What's new?  What do you love? What do you think every primary out there should be doing?  I'm dying for any ideas, resources, anything! :)

Thursday, February 19, 2009

Uplifting break

Wow! I just found this through the church's website. It's the church's official YouTube channel and the little videos are so great! I just finished watching a few of them and they left me in tears! Definitely a wonderful way to spend a few minutes (either alone or with family... MM loved Pres. Hinckley's Lessons... one) and a great spiritual pick-me-up!

To help her curls bounce

My little one FINALLY has enough hair that we can now tell she has a bit of curl in it. Any suggestions for good products to help the curl keep its bounce and shape?

Blog Layout

Alright- here's a new background. *Hopefully* we won't have any problems with it!! But if there are, please let me know. The easiest way for me to fix them is to see what you are seeing, so if there is a big issue, email a print screen to the email address on the sidebar. Thanks everyone!!

Wednesday, February 18, 2009

Wednesday Weekly

What is your favorite hymn?
What is your favorite Primary song?

Tuesday, February 17, 2009

Susan's Spotlight Survey

Susan is having a few technical difficulties with her new Internet, so she asked me to post this for her!





Basics

1. What is your age and physical description?
Well I am 24 and currently have red hair, due to dye and hazel tired looking eyes. (those come from the kids in my life)I am average height and have a saggy belly from having a baby in October. Definitely need to work on getting rid of that!!

2. Where were you born and where are you now?
I was born in Pontiac, MI and currently I live in Provo, UT. I wish I was in MI! *tear*


3. What do you do for a living?
SAHM……I did work at a daycare before I had my second baby in oct.


4. What is your favorite and least favorite color?
Green is my favorite (Go MSU!) and I guess gray is my least favorite.


5. Did you go to college and get a degree, If so, where & what?
I am still in school. I went to MSU for a year and loved it. Now I am at UVU almost done with my associates in Early Childhood Education and planning to get a bachelors degree in Elementary Ed.


6. How many children do you have? How old are they?
Cedric who is 2 ½ and Katelyn who is 4 months


7. What’s your favorite and least favorite food?
Mashed potatoes…….they are my comfort food.


8. Are you right or left handed?
Right. Most normal people are. j/k


9. Do you play any instruments?
I played Clarinet until 10th grade.


10. What are your hobbies?
I love making little girl hairclips and bows!!


Make You Think...

11. What did you want to be when you grew up?
A teacher…..I am still pretty much on track.


12. What is your biggest fear?
Losing one of my children! I don’t think I could bare it.


13. Who has touched your life and influenced you the most and why?
My Mom is the most influential. She is such a strong woman! I hope to be as spiritual and as strong as she is one day.


14. If you could accomplish just one thing with your life, what would that be and why?
I guess finishing school would be my big accomplishment. I hope I will get done sometime!


15. What is your worst habit and if you could quit it, would you?
Hmmm…biting my nails! I don’t think I would quit because what would I do if I was nervous?


16. Who would play you in the movie of your life? Who would play your husband?
Reese Witherspoon because she is cute and skinny and I wish I looked like her! For my husband Brad Pitt because Brad Pitt is hot! Except if Brad Pitt was playing him I would play myself. No need to elaborate on why!

17. What songs would make up the soundtrack of your life and why?
Girls just want to have fun- I don’t know because I like to have fun.


18. If you could meet any one person in history, who would it be, and why?
I would love to meet…..it is hard to choose one! Joseph Smith, Brigham Young, George Washington, I would love to sit down and ask many people from history questions and just chat about their experiences.


19. If you lost everything you have tomorrow, what three things would you save and why?
computer- for the pictures and files on it, My money- to re buy everything, my family- because I love them and would want them with me


20. What is your favorite quote and why?
“Forget yourself and go to work.” When I am serving others it truly makes me happy!!


Just For Fun

21. Do you sleep with the closet door open or closed?
Open


22. What is your biggest pet peeve?
mean people


23. Where are the top three places you'd like to travel to?
Mine are lame! Michigan, Virginia, and Arizona because the people I love the most live in those areas!


24. Do you ever dance for no reason even though there’s no music playing?
Of course!! Life would be no fun without a little dancing around now and again!


25. What size is your bed?
KING we need to king size though! I like space and we have a 2 year old in it with us most of the time!


26. What do you drink with dinner?
Water- I LOVE water!


27. What movies could you watch over and over and still love?
Corny I know but I love Legally Blonde and My Best Friends Wedding


28. What was the first concert you went to?
Backstreet boys baby!


29. What is on your perfect pizza?
Ham, black olives, and onion…..or….I love BBQ chicken pizza from Pier 49


30. What's the most exotic place you've traveled to?
I have been to England. But that’s not very exotic!

Hot Topics #2

Can you say stretch marks? By now I'm sure every one of us has heard the story of the Suleman Family. I've been completely intrigued by this woman and her HUGE family. Were you able to watch her interview on Dateline with Ann Curry? What do you think about the whole situation?

I feel like this subject could be our Hot Topic for the next few weeks given how controversial the story is: Was implanting 6 embryos again ethical? How and who will be paying for these children? 3 of her 6 previous children suffer from learning disabilities, one of those being autism. How will she raise 14 children as a single mother? She's quoted as saying, "I was looking at myself, and acknowledged that I wasn't in love at all with him (her husband). I was in love with having children. She realized she didn't want to be married, she just wanted to be a mother. That meant finding a sperm donor." And the rest is history.

The pregnancy and birth of octuplets truly is a miracle. Each of the children seems to be healthy and growing each day. What are your thoughts?

Tuesday FHE Re-cap

How was your Family Home Evening last night? What worked? What didn't?

Monday, February 16, 2009

Recognizing the Spirit in everyday life

A few years ago we were in a ward with a really wonderful family. Every Sunday they had a family from the ward over for dinner as well as a family who did not belong to the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. At the end of dinner, every member of the family got to light a candle and then tell of an experience during their week where they felt the Spirit. We were so blessed to be invited over for dinner one Sunday and it was such a wonderful experience. I want to do this with my kids in the future. What a great way to teach your children how to recognize the Holy Ghost in their lives.

No Pets Allowed!

We have rented our house to a very nice family for a year now and they want to renew their lease, but they want a dog.  Our original lease says no pets unless agreed to and written in by us.  I am NOT a PET person and, while I don't even live in the same state anymore, I will still have to deal with any damage the dog does to the house.  I'm thinking of adding a pet fee (which I've seen on many apt. leases) for the additional wear and tear.  

Does that sound fair?
Any suggestions?

Spotlight Member: February 15th-22nd

Our spotlight member this week is...
Susan!

Susan, here is the "official survey". Copy & paste it into a new post, then answer the questions so we can all get to know you a little better! And feel free to post a picture of yourself so we can put a face with the name.


Basics


1. What is your age and physical description?

2. Where were you born and where are you now?

3. What do you do for a living?

4. What is your favorite and least favorite color?

5. Did you go to college and get a degree, If so, where & what?

6. How many children do you have? How old are they?

7. What’s your favorite and least favorite food?

8. Are you right or left handed?

9. Do you play any instruments?

10. What are your hobbies?

Make You Think...

11. What did you want to be when you grew up?

12. What is your biggest fear?

13. Who has touched your life and influenced you the most and why?

14. If you could accomplish just one thing with your life, what would that be and why?

15. What is your worst habit and if you could quit it, would you?

16. Who would play you in the movie of your life? Who would play your husband?

17. What songs would make up the soundtrack of your life and why?

18. If you could meet any one person in history, who would it be, and why?

19. If you lost everything you have tomorrow, what three things would you save and why?

20. What is your favorite quote and why?

Just For Fun

21. Do you sleep with the closet door open or closed?

22. What is your biggest pet peeve?

23. Where are the top three places you'd like to travel to?

24. Do you ever dance for no reason even though there’s no music playing?

25. What size is your bed?

26. What do you drink with dinner?

27. What movies could you watch over and over and still love?

28. What was the first concert you went to?

29. What is on your perfect pizza?

30. What's the most exotic place you've traveled to?

ADD / ADHD

I don't know much about ADD or ADHD. One of the students in my primary class has ADHD. I was told that he is given medication for it on the weekdays but not on the weekends. That seems a bit odd. Shouldn't he have the medication every day?

Blog Layout

I thought we'd worked out the kinks, but now I'm getting feed back saying that the black font on brown background is hard to read. What colour would be best for everyone?? I'll make a new background soon so we don't have these issues, but for the time being, what's going to be best?

Tutu pattern

Does anyone know a good tutu pattern? I found one the other day by following a link from a blog (may have been this one) but I can't seem to find the link again. Thanks!

Saturday, February 14, 2009

Emailed FHE

So, I know this isn't as personal as planning your own FHE, but I subscribe to ldsliving.com and every Monday they send an FHE complete with song, thought, story, activity, and treat. ;) It's always fun to read the lessons and do some of them when in a pinch. :) They send an email every day with LDS news and deseret book deals, and then on Saturdays (or maybe its Fridays..) they send Sunday lesson helps. It's pretty fun. Anyway, if you want to sign up click here. You can unsubscribe really easily if you don't like it, but I enjoy having them sent to me.

Also, as I mentioned before, I really like using the new nursery manual as FHE lessons for Megan. They're just the right time limit for my two year old's attention span.

My friend did a really cute missionary activity once (it was in October of 2007 if you're looking for the Friend she mentioned) and she blogged about it here. Anyway, I thought it was a really cute idea and could work for a girl too!

Friday, February 13, 2009

FHE Friday: 101 Activities

So, maybe you're really good at doing the lessons but you're like me and you're totally forgetting that you might want an activity too! So here's a list that should have something for every age. Not all of them are that appealing to me or my three year old but there are some great family ideas on here!! Share what else you've done for activities! We want to hear 'em!!!

(courtesy about.com) Okay, there are really 116 ideas but after a 101 who counts anymore? This list of Family Home Evening activities was handed out to our ward this Sunday in conjunction with a combined, fifth Sunday lesson for Relief Society/Priesthood entitled "Teaching the Gospel in the Family". Feel free to submit any other ideas that have been successful in your family. I will be adding appropriate links and additional ideas as I find them.

Visit the zoo.
Find out about your area's community center and/or park activities.
Wash the dog. (A neighbor's dog if you don't have one!)
Have a family slumber party.
Build a fort.
Get out the the family photo album.
Research your family history.
Visit the Genealogical library.
Play stickball.
Play hopscotch.
Play games.
Clean the house together (Have a pick-up party.)
Make up a play. Take it to a nursing home.
Fly kites.
Go on a family trip/historical excursion.
Did it snow? Go sledding and make a snowman.
Make a collage out of pictures from old magazines.
Set up a lemonade stand on a warm day.
Shoot hoops together. Play H.O.R.S.E.
Draw pictures of members of your family.
Make a family calendar.
Tell stories around a campfire. (Or at the barbecue?)
Organize a game of capture the flag.
Make miniature boats and float them in some water.
Write letters to grandparents or a missionary.
Play freeze-tag.
Tell scary stories (With lights out.)
Play broom ball.
Go for a hike.
Go for a bike ride together.
Go get ice cream and walk around the temple grounds.
Learn to play the guitar together.
Listen to classical music, lights off, lying on the floor, and take turns saying what it sounds like.
Attend community concerts or listen to a local band.
Organize a community clean-up.
Visit the library.
Go ice skating or roller skating.
Paint a picture, a mural or a room.
Learn how to use a compass.
Organize 72 hour kits.
Plant a tree or some flowers.
Learn the metric system.
Learn sign language.
Learn the Morse code.
Go swimming.
Go bird watching.
Walk the dog. (A neighbor's dog if you don't have one!)
Visit the countryside.
Visit the City. (Maybe on a bus?)
Pick berries/fruit together
Bake cookies or bread.
Make homemade jam.
Take treats to neighbors or friends.
Plant a garden.
Join a family choir.
Start a family journal.
Go to a museum.
Take a nature hike trail.
Play cards.
Start a family exercise group.
Sing (in the car).
Visit a local bookstore or library.
Make crafts together. Give them away.
Make Christmas ornaments together.
Write a story together.
Put a sleeping bag out in the back yard and watch the night sky through binoculars.
Go fishing.
Play touch football.
Have a culture night. Make a meal and learn about another culture.
Take photographs.
Invite friends over. Cook chinese.
Do yard work together.
Play Frisbee.
Make your own family cards for the holidays or birthdays.
Play chess, bridge or checkers.
Go camping.
Go for a long walk.
Play charades.
Do a rain dance.
Go around the table after dinner and have everyone say what they love best about each other.
Go dancing. Have a family dance. Take a dance class together.
Climb a tree.
Watch the sunset. Watch the sunrise. Figure out when the sun will rise and set in your location.
Have a big party and celebrate a TV free week.
Have a picnic. (If it's raining, have a picnic in the family room on a blanket.)
Invite a non-member family over for a barbecue.
Memorize the Articles of Faith.
Memorize a family hymn.
Learn how to fold the American Flag (or your country's flag). Have a patriotic night. Have a flag ceremony.
Visit and elder person or someone shut in.
Have a first-aid night. Invite other families. Call the fire department for a class.
Learn what to do if you are lost.
Have a budgeting class. Save for a family trip.
Learn how to build a fire and the cook hot dogs and enjoy.
Have an etiquette night. Practice your skills over a formal dinner.
Talk about drugs. Do role-playing.
Have a friend come and discuss good nutrition and health practices. (they don't listen to mom).
Learn home repairs for an activity. Make sure the girls learn too.
Prepare a family group sheet/four generation pedigree chart. Interview an older family member.
Start a family collection. (coins, rocks, stories, dress-up, clothes, treasures).
Have a family testimony meeting.
Have a bubble blowing contest.
Do bubbles outside. Try different instruments.
Have a baking contest
Adopt a grandma or grandpa from the ward.
Have a family fireside
Watch an old movie (maybe a western) together.
Make a family goal chart.
Have a service car wash.
Learn to play golf together.
Go miniature golfing.
Make a grocery list, set a budget, divide items, go get pizza with the money you save.
Make a family cook book.
Have a family treasure hunt.
Have a family dance. Everyone can bring partners.
Solve a crossword or wordsearch puzzle together.

Thursday, February 12, 2009

Speaking in Church

I have to talk in church on Sunday in our new ward. I really do not like talking in church. My talk has to be 20 minutes long! Why do they do that? They should have 3 or 4 speakers instead of two. Anyway the topic is on President Monsons talk from conference, "Finding Joy in the Journey". If anyone has any thoughts, feelings, or ideas about his talk that could help me out I sure would appreciate it! Thanks in advance!

Wednesday, February 11, 2009

Wednesday Weekly

What is your favorite Valentine's treat?

Valentine Ideas!

Since my little girl doesn't go to preschool yet, I have Valentine envy! I so want to make up cute little valentines for her to take and share! 

I love this idea!

And this one!

And you can download these for free! 

And I just heard about these from a girlfriend!

Last night, at a girl's craft night, I made two of these! I'll have to upload a picture because I think mine is so much cuter, if I do say so myself! :)

And of the girls there had the great idea of making cut outs of your child's handprint, folding down the two middle fingers to make the sign for "I love you" and tucking a heart underneath the folded down fingers.  so cute!!

Someday I'll get to make my own for more than my three Valentines! And I might make one of these!!

Tuesday, February 10, 2009

Tuesday FHE re-cap

How did FHE go for you last night? What worked? What didn't?

Monday, February 9, 2009

Beautiful Blog layout!

I just wanted to say that Sugar and Spice looks GREAT!!! I must say, it's one of the best looking blogs out there!! (Claire, did you do this?) I do have a request though, the color of the writing is really hard for me to read. I'm not sure if it's just my computer, or me, but would it be possible to change the color of the text? If I'm the only one with this problem, nevermind.. I"ll just blame it on my horrible eyesight :) Thanks a bunch!

Jocelyn Christensen: Member Spotlight

Basics

What is your age and physical description?

I am 31 years old (4 foot 2, eyes of blue…)  Just kidding, I’m 5’8, and fairly athletic although I did just have three babies in that many years, so cut me a little slack!  I have blue eyes and various shades of light brown hair that as of late reaches to about my shoulders.  Where ever I go complete strangers think that they know me from… somewhere.  It’s always flattering.  I hope it means that I connect well with people, but perhaps it just means that I look like a lot of other people out there!!

Where were you born and where are you now?

I was born in Cleveland, Ohio and lived in the same house all of my growing up years, just down the street from Lake Erie.  I consider Washington, DC my second home.  I spent the best years of my career there and met and married my husband there.  Now we live in Lewisburg, PA (Just look at a map of PA and put your finger right in the center…that’s where we are!)

What do you do for a living?

I am a journalist by trade, a full-time stay-at-home mother for a living, a freelance writer for distraction and for fun.

What is your favorite and least favorite color?

I like jewel-tones (red, mauve, fuchsia, pinks)

Did you go to college and get a degree, If so, where & what?

I went to Miami University (where Laura Farkas and Wally Szczerbiak went and lots of other lovely people who I MISS terribly!  I miss gawking at Wally in the dining hall.)

I got two bachelor degrees…Mass Comm and Poli Sci

How many children do you have? How old are they?

I have three babies – ages 3 years, 20 months, and 3 months

What’s your favorite and least favorite food?

Don’t even ask me that question…I am trying to lose my baby-fat!

Are you right or left handed?

Right-handed, of course!  I am not creative enough to be a lefty!

Do you play any instruments?

 I play the trumpet.

What are your hobbies?

My biggest hobby has always been NETWORKING.  I love being connected to people.  “Make new friends, but keep the old,” really stuck with me ever since Girl Scouts.

Writing…always writing.

I LOVE Volleyball…and miss playing a lot, since I’ve been in baby-mode.

Make You Think...

What did you want to be when you grew up?

Lots of things and everything all at once.  i.e. a ballerina (wrong body-type), President of the United States (too complicated), a country singer (can’t sing that great!), a stay-at-home mother, a TV anchor, a CEO of some company…  Obviously I had to learn to prioritize these dreams, but the TV news biz and Mommying seem to be working out well so far!

What is your biggest fear?

I fear not listening to my heart…because I know what happens when I fail to do that.

Who has touched your life and influenced you the most and why?

My parents – They are brave, stalwart, and have a lot of integrity.

Quiet people who teach me about Christ through their every-day actions…it is very humbling to me.

If you could accomplish just one thing with your life, what would that be and why?

Raise a righteous generation of leaders who will follow the Lord, lift the burdens of others, and make the world a better place.  I want my family to turn out like the stripling warriors mentioned in the Book of Mormon.  Just thinking about the lies that Satan tells people makes my blood boil (don’t even get me started!), so I kind of make it my business to stand for truth and righteousness every chance I get.  It is my deep desire to do a good job of that during my lifetime.

What is your worst habit and if you could quit it, would you?

I truly wish I listened more and talked less!  I get really excited and want to TALK to people and share my crazy stories…but that tends to make me a bad listener at times, and I feel bad about that!  I really admire good listeners.  Yes, I want to change that about myself for sure!

Who would play you in the movie of your life? Who would play your husband?

Oh my gosh, that is a tough question…I have NO IDEA.  I have been told that I look like Jewel (that was a long time ago though!) and that chick from Every Day Italian.  I don’t know if they represent my in any way except looks though...and that's even a stretch!  Lance Armstrong would play my husband, because he’s totally in to biking – but my husband has less hair and a lot more admirable traits, I must say!  (Yes, I realize none of those people are actually actors!)

What songs would make up the soundtrack of your life and why?

Definitely a mixed tape with every genre of music.  

If you could meet any one person in history, who would it be, and why?

In history?  Well, I have actually met a lot of people through my jobs in TV who MADE history and LIVED history.  But I would really like to meet my great-great grandmother on my mother’s father’s side…Uh, I’m a bit stuck on her in my family history research.  And I grow more curious about her every day…

If you lost everything you have tomorrow, what three things would you save and why?

(We’re not counting Family and Scriptures and Journals are we???)

Other than that…I’d save…nope that’s all I’d save.

What is your favorite quote and why?

I don’t really have one…but I have from time to time had my favorite “magic words”  (i.e. toss him an ego bisquit, remember the tool of your trade, be strong) and I have lots of favorite movie quotes, such as "Nobody puts baby in a corner."  "Change your stars..." and "I quit, Mr. White"  (a prize if you know what movies I'm talking about!)

Just For Fun

Do you sleep with the closet door open or closed?

Closed…I don’t need that mess staring at me while I sleep, thank you!

What is your biggest pet peeve?

I don’t really have one…but snobbery makes me roll my eyes and infidelity makes me want to cry.

Where are the top three places you'd like to travel to?

England (again), Brazil, the moon.

Do you ever dance for no reason even though there’s no music playing?

There is always music playing in my head…and there is always a reason to dance! J

What size is your bed?

None of your business!   LOL

What do you drink with dinner?

Water or milk

What movies could you watch over and over and still love?

Dirty Dancing (my husband hates it though!)

What was the first concert you went to?

Spin Doctors, Gin Blossoms, and Cracker – my older sister’s boyfriend took me at my mom’s request to keep me safe!

What is on your perfect pizza?

Pep and mushrooms

What's the most exotic place you've traveled to?

Exotic…nothing much to share in the travel department.  Although, there are some very “exotic” places within the US that very few people get to see.  I’m thinking of places I’ve been to while I worked in local and national news…a small scary town in Kentucky the morning after a stabbing, the living room of a beloved and famous gold-medal winning swimmer the day after she died (I got to hold her medals!), inside a White House press conference with President Clinton sitting shoulder-to-shoulder with my idols in the journalism world…and on and on.  These are some of my favorite “exotic” places I have been to!

Spotlight Member: February 9-15

This week's Spotlight Member is...

Jocelyn Christensen!

Jocelyn, we are so happy you are a member of Sugar & Spice!!!

Here is a copy of the "official survey". Just copy and paste it into a new post and share your answers with us. We can't wait to get to know you better.


Basics

What is your age and physical description?

Where were you born and where are you now?

What do you do for a living?

What is your favorite and least favorite color?

Did you go to college and get a degree, If so, where & what?

How many children do you have? How old are they?

What’s your favorite and least favorite food?

Are you right or left handed?

Do you play any instruments?

What are your hobbies?

Make You Think...

What did you want to be when you grew up?

What is your biggest fear?

Who has touched your life and influenced you the most and why?

If you could accomplish just one thing with your life, what would that be and why?

What is your worst habit and if you could quit it, would you?

Who would play you in the movie of your life? Who would play your husband?

What songs would make up the soundtrack of your life and why?

If you could meet any one person in history, who would it be, and why?

If you lost everything you have tomorrow, what three things would you save and why?

What is your favorite quote and why?

Just For Fun

Do you sleep with the closet door open or closed?

What is your biggest pet peeve?

Where are the top three places you'd like to travel to?

Do you ever dance for no reason even though there’s no music playing?

What size is your bed?

What do you drink with dinner?

What movies could you watch over and over and still love?

What was the first concert you went to?

What is on your perfect pizza?

What's the most exotic place you've traveled to?

Valentine's Dinner Ideas

I'm thinking about making an "All Red Food" Valentine's dinner this year. Have any of you done this before? What kind of menu (kid-friendly) did you plan that worked for you?

Saturday, February 7, 2009

Easy Valentine Gifts


I got this in an e-newsletter from Real Simple
"Make Valentines from Household Supplies
Paint samples, playing cards, sponges, sugar packets, matches...
Original Purpose: Taking up space in your kitchen and desk drawers.
Aha! Use: It's all there, and now you know why you've never gotten around to throwing it out: a private, inexhaustible stock of Valentine-card-making props. Dead AAA batteries ("I get a charge out of you"), old lollipops ("I'm a sucker for you"), stray keys ("the key to my heart"). Sit yourself down and grab a pile of craft supplies — construction paper, scissors, markers, tape, X-Acto blade, large-eyed needle and strong thread (or dental floss!), doilies, ribbon saved from the last party. Don't worry about getting the edges straight. It's the message that counts.
Reward: Recycling with heart."

kind of a fun idea!

Friday, February 6, 2009

FHE Friday: The Kit!

Our FHE consists of Family Home Minutes right now!  With a two year old, we keep it short and sweet and easy!  Our favorite resource is the Gospel Art Kit! If you don't have it, it's definitely something to save your pennies for.  We got it for a wedding present which is also a fantastic idea, if you need good wedding ideas. I digress.

The Gospel Art Kit has most of the church's pictures in it. It's even available online to download the pics if you don't want to buy the kit yourself. 

Here's what we do.  (it's not original, but it works for our little ones)  We pull a picture out, talk about it, and are using them to teach her the scripture stories.  She loves them.  With our older nephews, we play a guessing game where we pull out a random picture and they guess who it is.  The love it!!  It still hasn't gotten old and it's easy if we haven't prepared anything fancy ahead of time to just grab and go. 

Plan Ahead for FHE

When I had about three months left in this last pregnancy, Family Home Evening was going really well, and I wanted to make sure that continued when Baby #3 arrived (yup, that's three babies in three years time!)  I knew life would be crazy, so I planned all of my FHEs in advance.  I printed out a calendar I found online and started filling in my Monday nights with FHE topics that I knew we needed to cover and fun things I wanted to do as weather/season permitted.  I then created a folder filled with articles and activities from the Friend.  They were tagged with a post-it, so I knew which week/topic they were for.  I planned in July for each FHE August through December 2008.

This all really helped to keep FHE running smoothly and ensured that we always had SOMETHING planned.  We could supplement or change it, but we were never without.  Also, I know people do FHE groups...but this is a lot less labor intensive.  And when you are talking about kids who are three and under, the lessons aren't that long anyway!

As a result of planning ahead for this very important night of the week, I gained a testimony that the Lord will guide our efforts.  As I was planning my FHEs in July, I thought that I'd really like to go out and fly kites with my kids in September.  Not knowing if we'd have a day with wind to suit such an activity, I just picked one Monday in September and wrote "Fly Kites" down for our FHE activity.  The lesson would be about limits/rules and why they are important.

Well, the Sunday evening before that "Kite Flying" Monday, a wildly windy storm blew in through Cleveland and arrived in our area of Pennsylvania the next day.  So all day on Monday, we had THE PERFECT kite-flying weather.  It was sunny and beautiful and windy enough to fly kites all day with the kids...and they loved it!

Sister Julie B. Beck said in her RS talk two years ago that Mothers who know "plan for the future of their organization."  I truly believe that when we plan for these glorious organizations we lead - our families - the Lord blesses our efforts and sends tender mercies, like sunny windy Mondays, to make our plans succeed!

Thursday, February 5, 2009

Calling All Writers...

A friend of mine let me know that the Ensign is looking for stories on a bunch of topics...You might want to check out this link to see if you have any useful stories from your own life to share.  To view all of the categories Click here.

Wednesday, February 4, 2009

Wednesday Weekly

Since we have a spiritual them happening this month, Wednesday Weekly is:

What is your calling in your ward?

Hot Topic #1

This headline has been all over the news recently. If you don't feel like reading the entire article, the jist of the story is that Olympic swimmer Michael Phelps, who has won more gold medals than anyone in Olympic history, admitted Sunday he had engaged in "regrettable" behavior and shown "bad judgment" after a photo of him smoking what appears to be marijuana from a glass pipe was published in a British tabloid over the weekend.

In a statement he said, "I'm 23 years old, and despite the successes I have had in the pool, I acted in a youthful and inappropriate way, not in a manner that people have come to expect from me. For this, I am sorry. I promise my fans and the public -- it will not happen again."

Marketing experts said the incident should have minimal effect on Phelps' multimillion-dollar sponsorships because of his quick apology.
What do you think?

Hot Topics

I'm sure every one of us has seen "The View," whether we'd like to admit it or not, during some time in our adult lives. I thought it would be a fun idea to develop our own "Hot Topics" here on Sugar & Spice and share them about once a week. For those of us who truly haven't had the opportunity to watch Whoopi, Joy, Barbara, Elisabeth and Sherri duke it out on the show..."Hot Topics" is the portion of the show when the hosts bring up controversial news, research, gossip, etc. to discuss. We'll follow the same stucture here on our site.

Please feel free to share your thoughts, feelings and opinions about the given topic. I think that healthy discussion/debate is always a fantastic opportunity to learn and educate ourselves.

My Spotlight

Basics

What is your age and physical description?
26, 5’7”, longish brown hair and brown eyes

Where were you born and where are you now?
Colorado, Minneapolis

What do you do for a living?
I’m a Mom and teach early childhood music part-time

What is your favorite and least favorite color?
Sky blue, grey

Did you go to college and get a degree, If so, where & what?
Michigan State University, Music Education

How many children do you have? How old are they?
Two, ages two and 8 months

What’s your favorite and least favorite food?
Ice cream, Cold shrimp

Are you right or left handed?
right

Do you play any instruments?
piano

What are your hobbies?
Blogging, cooking, running, singing, home video editing

Make You Think...

What did you want to be when you grew up?
When I was little I wanted to be a librarian

What is your biggest fear?
Losing someone I love

Who has touched your life and influenced you the most and why?
My mom

If you could accomplish just one thing with your life, what would that be and why?
I don’t know if I can answer this one, I always have like 20 million goals in my head at one time, but if my children all go through the temple, that will be pretty much awesome.

What is your worst habit and if you could quit it, would you?
I drink Diet Coke with lime (very much in moderation, but still, I probably am a little addicted), I want to quit but it’s a nice treat late afternoon when my mothering energy is spent. Also, I can not say no to a chocolate chip cookie. I don’t plan on quitting either anytime soon.

Who would play you in the movie of your life?
Who would play your husband?
Sandra Bullock and a bald Tom Hanks. I picked Sandra because she is often clumsy in her movies and a handful of people have told me I look a bit like her. Tom Hanks just seems so huggable and he’s just totally classic. My husband shaves his head and he’s HOT!

What songs would make up the soundtrack of your life and why?
I love Jazz standards, I don’t have a good reason for why it would be my soundtrack, but that would be so fun as my life soundtrack

If you could meet any one person in history, who would it be, and why?
Martin Luther King, Jr. That guy has just been my hero since I was like 10.

If you lost everything you have tomorrow, what three things would you save and why?
My photo CDs, journals, and my file with all of my important papers

What is your favorite quote and why?
“If it’s free, it’s for me!” My friend Julianne taught me that one. I just think it’s funny and I’m always striving to spend less.

Just For Fun

Do you sleep with the closet door open or closed?
Open, but closed looks so much better

What is your biggest pet peeve?
When you are talking to someone and they look away or start talking about something else and you are like, wow, they are not listening. Sometimes it even happens to me mid-story and I don’t even know how to finish it at that point because I feel completely awkward. I also don’t like when a woman looks me up and down right in front of my face. It makes me feel violated and/or fat. At least wait until my back is turned!

Where are the top three places you'd like to travel to?
Australia, Hawaii, Spain

Do you ever dance for no reason even though there’s no music playing?
Oh, heck yeah!

What size is your bed?
King, I love my bed so much. I wish we could spend more time together.

What do you drink with dinner?
water

What movies could you watch over and over and still love?
The Parent Trap with Lindsay Lohan, White Christmas, Elf

What was the first concert you went to?
New Kids on the Block, and I wasn’t even a big fan I swear, my friend just had extra tickets and we went with our sisters and our Dads. Hilarious.

What is on your perfect pizza?
VEGGIES!

What's the most exotic place you've traveled to?
Rome

Recipe Needed: Sugar Cookies

Hey girlies- I'm wanting to make sugar cookies with my little princess so she can give them to her friends for Valentines Day. Here's the thing- I'm not a huge fan of sugar cookies unless they are the yummy cakey ones. Well, I've never before made sugar cookies so I have pretty much no idea what I'm doing! Do any of you have recipes for the yummy cakey ones?? If so, please share!!

Tuesday, February 3, 2009

Awesome Parenting {and life!} Motto

I've recently started doing a little freelance writing for a parenting site, and as I was reading through some of the posts by other writers I came across this piece of advice, which the author said was some of the best parenting advice she ever received...

If something will matter 1 month from now, feel free to get upset about it. Otherwise, try laughing.

As I read it, I decided this is a piece of advice I want to take to heart. I tend to get pretty caught up in keeping my daughter's clothes stain free, or wanting to keep my home and life so organized that I find myself getting stressed over things that aren't important, that a month from now, I won't even remember. So I'm adopting this as my new motto and thought it was definitely worth sharing. Its probably not a new idea to a lot of you, but it was a light bulb moment for me!

Loaves and Fishes FHE lesson

So this is what FHE lessons are usually like: I start talking about Heavenly Father and stuff and my two year old suddently gets very, very talkative and over and over says "Jesus Christ. Amen." It's so cute but you have to wonder if she's getting anything out of it. Well, she probably is not, but my Mom has told me that you should just get in the habit of it. If they sit through FHE at a young age, then they are used to it and will sit through it in the coming years.

My friend gave me this idea to teach the Loaves and Fishes story at FHE with bread and goldfish crackers. I tried it last night and I think it was a fun visual.

Monday, February 2, 2009

Spotlight Member

This week I decided our Spotlight Member should be none other than...

Our fearless leader Lindsay!!

Without her, Sugar & Spice wouldn't exist, so thank you Linz for all you do and for making this site the awesome place it is!

Here's the "official" S&S Survey. Copy & paste it into a new post then answer the questions so we can all get to know more about you! :D We love you Linz!

Basics

What is your age and physical description?

Where were you born and where are you now?

What do you do for a living?

What is your favorite and least favorite color?

Did you go to college and get a degree, If so, where & what?

How many children do you have? How old are they?

What’s your favorite and least favorite food?

Are you right or left handed?

Do you play any instruments?

What are your hobbies?

Make You Think...

What did you want to be when you grew up?

What is your biggest fear?

Who has touched your life and influenced you the most and why?

If you could accomplish just one thing with your life, what would that be and why?

What is your worst habit and if you could quit it, would you?

Who would play you in the movie of your life? Who would play your husband?

What songs would make up the soundtrack of your life and why?

If you could meet any one person in history, who would it be, and why?

If you lost everything you have tomorrow, what three things would you save and why?

What is your favorite quote and why?

Just For Fun

Do you sleep with the closet door open or closed?

What is your biggest pet peeve?

Where are the top three places you'd like to travel to?

Do you ever dance for no reason even though there’s no music playing?

What size is your bed?

What do you drink with dinner?

What movies could you watch over and over and still love?

What was the first concert you went to?

What is on your perfect pizza?

What's the most exotic place you've traveled to?

New Sugar & Spice Feature: Spotlight Member

Its been awhile since we all did our introductory post and I'm ready to get to know you all better, so starting today we have a new Sugar & Spice feature... Spotlight Member. Each Monday I will post the week's Spotlight Member. I will include the "Official S&S Survey" with a bunch of fun questions to help us all get to know the Spotlight Member a little better. The Spotlight Member can then copy the survey into a new post, answer the questions and include a recent picture of herself.

Feel free to post your congratulations to our Spotlight Member and ask her anything else you'd like to know about her in the comments section.

I hope you girls enjoy learning more about each other. I know I'm really excited to get to know each of you better.

Make it and LOVE it!!

This is a fun fun blog full of great, easy craft ideas! A friend in my ward told me about it at church yesterday! I already have a list of things I want to make!!

makeitandloveit

Sunday, February 1, 2009

Family Home Evening February

This month on Sugar & Spice we will be having the monthly theme of Family Home Evening/ideas for teaching the gospel in the home.

President Faust said that children should learn the most about the gospel in their home, and that Sunday school and other church activities are to be a supplement.

Throughout this month please share:
-Successful FHE lessons you've had in your home
-Ideas for getting kids of all ages involved in FHE
-Fun activities and treats for FHE
-Other everyday ideas for teaching the gospel at home
-Successful gospel-learning experiences from your childhood or ideas you've gotten from other families

Please also post your questions on this topic!

Continue to also post your ideas and questions unrelated to this topic this month.

Yippee for Family Home Evening February!

Dear Sugar & Spice

If you would be interested in writing a post for Sugar & Spice as a guest, and/or if you have an anonymous question that you would like to have published, please e-mail us at dearsugarandspice (at) yahoo (dot) com. Thanks for reading!